Dressing anyhow in different styles; show me your boobs, show me your back, off shoulders, etc.. Just because you want to be gain the name, slay queen.
Because you want to get the attention of all the boys, because you want them drooling while looking at you. You can have people say every kind of compliment most of which do not hold any form of respect but that is not what they actually want, they only want their eyes’ pleasure by looking at your exposed body figures and nothing more.
Dear slay queen, have you ever thought of the outcome of your mode of dressings? Most the guys you think you are impressing only looked at you in a lustful manner. Some of us would say, why did they look?
The only frank answer remaining, because you showed, you want them to look. God has made it clear that He created men with the desire for women. He did not made the prohibition of indecent forms of women dressings just because men have the power to take control of their eyes. He is the one who created us and knows us better than ourselves.
Sometimes contact is not required in committing the sin of zina. Yes, there are other forms of zina, zina al’ayn (fornication by the eyes), zina alqalb (fornication by the heart). When a guy look at you, and fancy any part of your body be it your hair or any part of your aura (Parts women are asked to keep hidden). If he fancy that very part and gain pleasure through it, its called fornication by the eyes.
Fornication by the heart happens when a someone looks at you, and then imagine it in his heart that he is touching that particular part and gaining pleasure through it.
The rate at which rape happens these days is increasing due to the way we dress these days. We ladies contribute enormously at which rape happens and we don’t seem to care about it. We are always eager to cross God’s boundaries and the consequences are just nothing compared to what awaits us in the hereafter. Rape is just a part of it. May God protect us.
We should try to emulate the great women that came before us. Aisha, mother of the believers R.A, once saw a group of women dressed and beautified excessively and she told them “enjoy it here in this duniya, for it is for us in the akhira”.
This is the type of woman of every man’s dream. Therefore, lets make some little adjustments in our ways, it does not hurt a bit just because you hold on to your dignity. May Allah guide us.